the Game of Moving On
Right…itz 3days b4 midyear n i’m actuali thinking of something else. Oh well.i guess it’z alrite to juz let off steam for a while, no?
I guess itz perfectly normal for teens @ young adults to be in a relationship/ have had a relationship/ wanna b in one.. but for every sweet and beautiful relationship, there’s always a broken one too.. and itz d latter tht’s served me up wif some surprising(n annoying) insights.
Nowadays..whenever v fail in love (breakup or get rejected), d maxim is to move on. V tell ourselved tht v’re adults, n d most sensible and rational thg 2do is to realize tht there’re loads of gals out there who deserve our attention as well, no point dwelling on d past, yada yada…
Yes i agree moving on is d right thing to do. But are some of us trying too hard 2b adult-like? Case in point: a guy "falls in love" wif a gal, gives up a month ltr n moves on , falls for another but barely 3 months ltr he gives up again. Goes in2 a relationship wif another gal (d 3rd one now) days ltr and bout a month ltr, due to some problems, they break up. he "mourns" for awhile, and 2months ltr, he’s already "in love" with another (d 4ht one, in case u’ve lost count)!
Unbelieveable? Fantastic? Whole piece of shit, in my opinion. Pardon d harsh language. But this kinda ppl r seriously kidding themselves n insulting d intelligence of ppl around them when they claim tht they’re in love. Tell me, is it humanely possible for someone to fall in love, breakup/get rejected, move on and fall in love again not once but FOUR times in something less than 10 months?
It’s an abject abuse of the words "fall in love" and "move on" cause it just isnt true anyway…these r exactly d kind of ppl who think of excuses to justify their actions and not think whether their actions r justified before acting.
To what extent do v move on that it becomes a game? A game that’s an abomination of love? I think d above is d perfect example..u supposedly "fall in love" wif sum1( preferably pretty of course), then when u get rejected or just plain ignored, go 4d next prettiest or d1 who’s most likely to accept u. and even when in a relationship, there’s always d nex beauty who comes along n turns ur head, so u breakup n "move on", no? A whole lot of crap, and itz SAD tht there’s LOADS of such guys around. Just how they can kid themselves into believing tht they’re in love is beyond my comprehension : surely, if u like someone enough to love her, u just dun ‘transfer’ those emotions to another and another and another and another in such a short period of time? Itz not stuff like money!
Itz such ppl who reali make d world such a sick place to live in. D thing is, they dun realize that in trying too hard to act like adults, they’ve exposed their childishness completely. And it’s realli sad when it’s not 15, 16 year olds who are "still kids" but 18 year olds who’re "mature" who do so.
May 21st, 2006 at 11:35 pm
Where shall began?? Ok,i totally understand wat u jz typed n i admit i have a fren who is like dat. reading ur blog jz reminded me of her. Yes, i noe u feel absoultely annoyed 2 the max, u r not alone. My fren, has 5 official bfs and god noes how many unofficial bf(guys which she has yet 2 snog!!). Me n my frenz always advise her 2 choose carefully, guess wat?? wasted our saliva she never listens, when she breaks up a guy, who does she mourns 2?? My frenz n me!!All 3 of her close frenz, including me can’t take it!!She never learns like an old dog who could not learn new tricks!!We still care 4 her though, if only she is more rational n mature 2 think b4 jumping into a relationship.Haiz, jz 2 let u noe, there are many sickening girls as well who jumps from 1 relatioship 2 the next like changing old socks!!Not only confine 2 guys alone.Somehow i still believe there are still guys and gals out there who still use the words “I’m in love” when they meant it…they are jz scarce i guess.Another thing, the word love is used so often eg. in my high skool, the girls say “i love u” to the guys even when they don mean it, i seriously can’t differentiate the honest statement from the fake. 2 me the word “love” is very strong. =( I think my comment is getting 2 long:P Anyway, hope u’ll be able 2 find sum1 u love 4 real:D